Honestly despite the bad side of the internet I’ve seen and learned about I don’t wish to unlearn anything. Because of what I’ve learned I’ve become who I am now and I’m proud of not being perfect but achieving what I want instead of what others want out of me.
That my worth and value are based on what others think of me. I'm trying to learn how to love myself and develop a secure attachment style.
I wish I could unlearn how cruel and horrible people can be when they think they are better than others
In 9th grade algebra, I learned, "It's fun to graph with y = mx+b" to the tune of YMCA by the village people. It's been 30 years and that song still pops into my head every time anything even remotely suggests a simple slope calculation. I wish I could unlearn that.
That I need to take care of everyone and everything around me.
That I don't need to keep chasing new accomplishments to feel worthy! Yes - I grew up in an asian household.
@0x5344 I can relate to this, even to this day. I'm working to break this pattern after realizing I was applying the same achievement mindset to relationships - trying to 'accomplish' connections and constantly evaluating what I was getting in return. Life is not a business or investment. It's been freeing to accept that relationships, like self-worth, aren't achievements to be unlocked but experiences to be valued for their own sake.
I want to unlearn my tennis backhand so I can relearn it as a two-hander instead of a one-hander. It’s just where the sport is trending that it’s become a liability.
@CheeseisGood One-handed backhand looks so cool, tho.